Frequent Comments and FAQs

Here's some frequent comments I get all the time, and some frequently asked questions, including some of my responses.

Comment: "You are a joke!"
My response: And you are a dumbass! LOL!

Comment: "You are sadly a racist"
My response: If you had met my best friends from over the years, and men that I have dated, you'd know how stupid this comment is. I have dated men of many different races, and they were all great!

Comment: "You are a hypocrite"
My response: I look at both sides of everything, good and bad. If that makes me appear to be a hypocrite, so be it!

Comment: "You are so kind"
My response: Thank you. I always try to be kind and fair to everyone. :)

Comment: "You are weird"
My response: Thank you. I take that as a compliment and a merit badge that I am leaning towards being my own individual, and not trying to be like everyone else. To me, that would be like lying to myself and others which is FAR worse than being called a "weirdo". :)

Comment: "You never mentioned that you ever saw JD Fortune live"
My response: Um, of course I did you dim-wit! Look throughout my blog.

Comment: "You are delusional."
My response: The same as being called weird. I think I should take that as a compliment. Besides, I've seen people who are well-educated in mental illness (after I lost Groucho), and they all said there is NOTHING delusional about me. But people nowadays seem to refer to all people who are different as being "delusional". So, coming from you, that's not such a bad comment.

Question: Why do you hate show breeders so much?
Answer: Because I've met too many who were back-stabbers, shit-talkers, and very rude, nasty and evil people. And they seem to think they are above all other people and deities. To think I once liked show breeders!! But just because I hate them does not mean that everyone looking for a well-bred dog or cat should too! (This is me looking at both sides again). But they treat people like trash or lower life-forms, and then they hate it when the same thing is done to them.

Question: Why do you hate people?
Answer: Again, I've met too many who were bad. Many of them would be nice to you to your face, and then turn around and stab you in the back when you least expect it. And I've met so many people who absolutely LOVE those individuals. I will never understand people! If I'm going to stab someone in the back, I'm going to do it to their face too. And don't take my civil manner to your face as being a sign of weakness, that's just how I am. All-in-all my blog is a place for me to rant.

Comment: "You've said some bad things about me. Take it down or I will sue you!"
My response: First, make absolutely sure I really was talking about you! Then you will have to give me a darn good reason to take it down. And the fact you want to sue me is NOT a good-enough reason! Besides, chances are you've been on certain forums and have said worse about me too. :)

Question: Do you really not care what others say about you?
Answer: No, I don't. Because I've learned just in the past few years alone, that what you say about me is only your opinion! You may find a few others who might agree with you, but that doesn't have any influence on how those who really do know and love me feels about me. And that's all that matters. And I've also found that most people only spread bad rumors about me because I don't like them, or one or more of their friends or someone they support. Sorry but, I'm not going to be quiet if I don't like someone!

Comment: "You are evil!"
My response: That too is only in the eye of the beholder.

Question: Why do you like some people and not others?
Answer: The people I like are those who accept me the way I am, whether I am a little nutty, crazy, wary of others, or whathaveyou. I also like people who are straight-foreward and honest with me, and don't keep me in the dark about what they think of me. Whether it be good or bad. I can learn a lot from both sides. I also prefer people who do not let the rumors of haters tell them what kind of person they think I am, but instead get to know me for themselves. I can be really sweet, or I can be really hostile. It depends on how you approach me.

Question: My comment doesn't show up when I push the post button. Why is that?
Answer: I have to approve all comments. But they all go to my e-mail inbox, so I do read them all. I generally approve all comments, I only do not post comments when the person posting the comment asks me not to.