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Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Do I Look Mean?

I dunno! I always try to be nice to everyone. But I think I look mean and nasty. So mean I think people who want to shit-talk our dogs don't dare say it to my face! Today, when we took our dogs out for their noon trip to the dog park, Anna was on the way out (some time after me), and there was a woman in the ground floor lobby who started talking about our dogs and Anna overheard it. The woman said something to the effect of "There's that dog that keeps barking at me everytime I pass by their apartment! One of these days, I'm going to take that dog and break it right in half!" and then Anna went ballistic! Now, this was not a young woman, she's an old crotchety thing that even uses a walker to get around. The funny thing was, I passed right by that woman not 10 minutes before Anna, and she didn't say anything to me. And no one can hear Odessa from outside Anna's apartment. Odessa doesn't bark that loud! Her barking is a lot more like the sound one of those clicker dog-training devices sound like. It's not loud at all! And I've never seen that woman before today. So, I think that woman was just delusional. But Anna got pissed at her, I mean PISSED!!! She told that woman that if she ever comes near our dogs, she'd do something terrible to her. That woman said "You're making a mistake!" Anna said back "No! YOU made the mistake!" I asked Anna if she wasn't sure that person was kidding her. She said she didn't look like she was kidding. Well, I wasn't there, I didn't hear exactly what happened. But yes, we are very overprotective of our dogs. I can be like a mama crocodile!! So can Anna!! LOL!!

I just wonder, do I look tough??? I always thought I looked rather meek, and I only act tough when I have to. I don't just pick random people (or dogs) to harass and just keep going with them, or threaten them. I try to give everyone a chance. But seeings how that woman never said anything to me, I wonder if it's just the way Anna carries herself that makes people gripe and complain to her, and not me. LOL! I do walk with a lot of confidence. Anna threatened that woman saying she'd do something terrible to her if she did anything to our dogs. While I think Anna was nobile in defending the dogs, she may have to answer to the police for that comment! I know she didn't mean it, but that woman doesn't know. I told Anna, "You know now she's going to call the cops on you!" I wish I had been there. But then again, if I had been there, that woman probably would not have said anything to Anna. Anna said to me "She'd better not do anything to hurt our dogs!" I assured her "Believe me, she won't!" I told Anna I would knock that woman off her walker if she tried! Old or not, I don't care. If she's got the gumption to threaten to harm my dogs, she can have the gumption to get her butt off the floor after I push her down!

Seems people always want to threaten our dogs here. First it was Helga, then Andy, and now this woman, whose name I do not know. I bet if they were rottweilers barking at these people, no one would be threatening to break them in half! But I think they do it because these are such tiny dogs, and would not really hurt them in consequence. Maybe I should have got rottweilers! I'd like to see someone try and harm my dogs if they were! But most apartments do not allow rottweilers. So I had to get chihuahuas. Same thing almost, just in a smaller package.

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UPDATE: That old woman's name is Raymie (wierd-ass name) and Karen told me her son in law is a policeman. But if it's true she did threaten to harm Anna's dog, Anna may be able to use that in her defense. Apparently Raymie has had a stroke and was unconscious for 24 hours. So she is not all right in the head, and probably did not mean to make threats on Odessa's life. She lives here on the first floor, so there really is no way she could hear Odessa from her apartment. More than likely, she was talking about some other dog that annoys her.

4 comments:

yoghurt5261 said...

Hi I thought I'd write my message here since you seemed too scared to receive a reply from me on youtube .. its yoghurt5261 btw. Message is as under.

Part 1

Hi TimmyGal
I'm not from the UK! You are way off! I'm just here because I work here. I dont think you can even guess where I am from. I just dont think I have much respect for fat people who say "I'm fine the way I am" and you know its denial, on the other hand I quite respect the fat people who say "I'm going to work hard to change my life". Life is all about challenges ... You see I'm not perfect I've got about the worst case of ADHD and Borderline Personality Disorder, and I have worked really hard to get where I am, It wasnt easy for me to focus without prescription drugs pull up my grades through universities, graduate with honors and distinction and acquire a fully funded scholarship for my PhD (in Photonics and Optical Communications).

yoghurt5261 said...

Part 2:
But you see, my fiancee is quite awesomely pretty and amazing (american girl) BUT she is the only person out of a family of 7 who is perfectly healthy. Everyone else is morbidly obese, her parents treated her like crap because she was not fat, but that might have been a subconscience reaction (part of the reason I had to do so well in life was beacuse of her, I wanted to be able to take care of her), anyway the point is they all say "oh its genetic, oh its diabetes, oh its thyroid problems, I dont eat i'm just fat anyway" (also her mom says alot of things that you said in your video) .... but the truth is they never lifted a finger to fight it and they do eat quite a lot, and transfer all their habits to their children who didnt think its wrong/abnormal to be massively obese. My fiancee had the fortune to meet a good mentor in early age who helped open her eyes and she changed her ways, to this day she is very careful about what she eats and exercises regularly even though she has a perfect figure and weight. The point is she worked hard to shed the pounds and worked hard to keep them off, she was also the only one in her family who did amazing well in university, she graduated summa cum laude in a music performance course. Everyone else did average, which leads me to believe that fat people who do not care about themselves and remain fat are mostly people who dont work hard and generally do average at life and school/college/university. For example check this out, my fiancee's younger sister lets call her gal T, she was majoring in avaition and business and had a passion for airplanes and wanted a job that had something to do with that, well she graduated with a crap GPA because she generally didnt want to work harder than other, and in the end she had the fortune to get selected for a pretty good job at an airline, but could not pass the physical. Now I thought she would be determined to lose the weight so I told her to take this as a lesson and do something about herself or she can kiss her dreams goodbye. She went to the gym for 2 days, then she gave up, and now works at pick'n'save with a bleak future and is about one of the most miserable people I know. Now ... her older sister lets call her gal Q, she is also quite obese always pretended to be really really smart and did a degree in geo-physics after dropping out of astrophysics told herself its okay to be fat because she can hold on to the "Nerdy" tag.

yoghurt5261 said...

Part 3:
I used to talk to her and she'd be okay but she developed a real attitude problem, (I generally dont brag but as an electronics/communication engineer I have pretty good math and physics skills) as I am (book)smarter than her and i'm not fat so therefore she hates me. Now her mom, (who also happens to be pretty racist, as she was really mean to me [yea i'm not white] and said things like "why couldnt you find a white boy" to her daughter when I first started going out with my fiancee and often told her to leave me but i'm glad my fiancee realised her mom was a source of bad advice) is the same way and she blames everything around her for the fatness, the reason I posted comments on your video and went on a rampage was (a) you say a lot of things that she says and (b) I have bad ADHD man and i'm stuck doing a difficult research project I'm not much interested in these days and (c) I want to urge overweight people to change even if I express it in a rude way(d) I want to understand why fat people who are unwilling to put in the effort to change are so uncomfortable about their appearance and get offended when the world makes fun of them? the world is cruel hun, I was born and raised in a messed up third world country where it was not easy to survive and everyday was a fight and a challenge sometimes even just to survive. I learned a lot of boxing and other survival skills at an early age and did not use my strength to inflict unjust punishment upon people, rather I was one of those who defended the weak unless the risk to me was too severe as I didnt want to die on the people who really cared about me. People are cruel, in this world, and I know that better than anyone having grown up in a country where the law doesnt protect you unless you are really rich, thats something most people dont understand in developed countries with good and honest law enforcement systems. I guess I didnt mean to insult you, rather I meant to shock you into reality in a way which would make you want to do something for your own betterment. So .... tell me .... why do you think you are okay and normal? i'm sorry but you are not and neither am I ... we both have our own challenges and demons to face ... I just hope you can find the strength and courage to change your lifestyle and more importantly your way of thinking, if not for yourself then for those who care about you and want you to live a long healthy life. Please do let me know what you think. I have to go now since my fiancee thinks that i'm writing a novel. I'd really like to continue talking to you to find out why you think the way you do. Thanks

Kind Regards
S

Dee TimmyHutchFan said...

Well, now having read your novel, let me say, I am happy with who I am. I'm sorry your mother and sisters in law are not. I've never blamed anyone else for being fat, but I do have medical proof that I have a problem, and it is not connected with thyroid. It's something that I don't discuss with anyone else now except close friends and family. Because outsiders just do not understand and I don't feel those people are important enough to waste my energy on trying to explain. Good for you you went to a university, and got a Ph.D. My sister also has ADHD as well as Asperger's, and her teachers K-12 all told her she would never amount to anything. Well, she is now going to one of the best universities in the country and studies very hard. And yes, she is overweight. But she is an active overweight person. Like me! Neither one of us just sit on our butts, or lie in our beds just eating constantly. I don't have an appetite and usually have to force myself to eat. I realize the World is a cruel place, but before you go and judge someone you have no idea what they are going through, except to measure them up by your in-laws, get to know that person from the inside out. NEVER EVER have I hated anyone because they are thin! I have thin friends! I only hate on people who are just evil beings. How a person looks does not matter to me.

Oh and don't think just because I have friend-lock on at YouTube that I am "scared" of you. LOL! I did that to keep the spammers away from my inbox. And another thing, don't use the form on the UMG Productions site to talk about your personal complaints about me from YouTube. That goes to my boss, and she has nothing to do with YT and has no idea what you were talking about.